This always happens when I come home--I think I have all this time to relax and organize my life and spend time with my family. Then all of a sudden I have three days left and a whole mess of things to do.
Case in point: dealing with my clothes. Gathering all my clothes in one place for the first time since I left for college, I have reached the following conclusion: I have too many clothes. Corollary: clothes are a pain. I am thankful that I have enough clothes to be adequately (sometimes even attractively!) clothed, but I start to wonder when eight pairs of shoes is my bare minimum to be prepared for all wardrobe (and weather) eventualities. I'm inclined to believe monasticism had it right--a vow of poverty is the best way to reduce both hassle and the burden of possessions. Fashion, packing, and matching shoes become a non-issue when you're wearing the same thing every day.
I like to think that it's my year of LVC-induced "simple living" that's bringing about this change of attitude towards my possessions, but it's more likely that I'm just tired of carting my life around in a suitcase. 100+ pounds of luggage gets old after awhile.
Along similar "life value" lines, I stumbled across this article about twenty-somethings on facebook and it made me think. I fit nearly all the descriptions of this new "emergent adult" ("untethered to romantic partners or to permanent homes...avoiding commitments...forestalling the beginning of adult life." Check, check and check!) and it's kind of interesting to be a subject of sociological interest. I agree with the psychological nitpickers at the end of the article: I don't think emergent adulthood is a required step of psychological maturation; I'd say it's simply a cultural phenonmenon resulting from the optimism of the Millenial generation, enabled by the middle-class privilege retained from the baby boomer generation. That said, it's real and (I think) worth studying. I'd be interested to know what the experts, and eventually history, decide--is this emergent adulthood good or bad? Is it good to be financially independent? Undoubtedly. Is it good to do good in the world and seek a life goal, if that opportunity is available to you? I think so. The million dollar question: are the two mutually exclusive? As one stuck in it I'm not sure I'm the best one to judge. I certainly have gone the route of "seeking" instead of "growing up" per se, but I hope that doesn't mean it's not possible to do both.
It is a little bit of a blow to realize that in my apparently unorthodox life path, I am actually behaving like a predictable young adult of my time. So much for being unique and thinking out of the box. I guess it's okay to be on the gospel train if you're bound for glory.
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